And then suddenly you get a call from them. Finally, when you were happy, you have accepted the fact that the person is not there in your life anymore. And all of a sudden you just get a call from that person. And when you look at your phone screen, you see that the number is familiar. So you pick up the call and say, hello, may I know who's speaking? All you can hear is heavy breathing and sobbing. You get that pinch in your chest
Nikita Arora
@The_gyaaniKeeda · 1:14
I'll drop the number for my mental health, for good mental health of mine and never talk to them again because I have learned to move on and I know what I've been through. Second, in case I pick up the call, I'll give them a closure. But I moved on and this is a toxic period that is coming back and talking to me again and I'll just set up my boundaries and I'll just protect my mental health and I'll move on that I moved on
I will just say, please, let's not talk. I don't remember the bad memories. I just remember the good ones and I love that. So for that and for my good behavior and something like that, I will just say, let's not talk about s***. Thank you. Thanks you so much for this, too. Well, thank you. Bye
Aanchal saluja
@aanchalsaluja · 0:05
Thank you so much for listening SUV and I'm glad you liked my content
Aanchal saluja
@aanchalsaluja · 0:56
Hello, Nikita. Thank you so much for applying. And yes, picking up the call would be like little difficult thing to do. So it's better to either avoid it or what we can do is even if we, you know, pick up the call and, you know, it's a really difficult, difficult to just let go. Like you always wanted that person in your life
Aanchal saluja
@aanchalsaluja · 0:46
Hello. I hope you're doing good. Thank you so much for replying. And yes, I am the exact same way of yours. You know, I forgive way too easily like that person. I've given him so many chances. But you know, in the end, when I finally decided to walk off, I actually did. And it was a harsh step. It did broke my heart. And now coming back of that person hits you
Then suddenly I got a call from them and he's like, what's up, bro? What's going on in your life? And I'm like, why have you called me? I don't need to talk to you. Just get away from me. But inside I knew that he deserves a second chance. Everyone deserves a second chance no matter what. So there's that. And yes, it's hard on oneself to actually give someone second chance who has hurt you a lot
Aanchal saluja
@aanchalsaluja · 0:50
So if that person is wrong and I give him another chance. So after he'll hurt me, I will not be like that person hurt me. I think that I gave him a chance. I did stupidity. I was wrong on that. This is what that scares me when it comes to such things situations. But yes, thank you so much for replying and keep listening
Adhikshita
@Adhi.V · 0:39
Hi. So if I was in this position, I wouldn't have let the person back in my life. Like if they called and gave the explanation, if it wasn't a good reason, then I wouldn't have let them in because because they left at the first place. And why didn't they come? Because times change. People change. People need support sometimes. So why did they left?
Priyal Kedia
@priyalkedia024 · 0:23
Hi Hatchel, first of all, the situation is super related, although I don't like to talk to those people again. That's why I don't download a true caller. But always the answer is no, a big no, because it's not a mistake, it's a decision made by them. So thank you so much
Hi Archel. First of all, I would like to say that you spoke very well. And second of all, the answer to your question is absolutely no, because I think trust is something which is which cannot be is generated easily. Like, once it is broken, it is broken. You can forgive that person and just start that boundary again. So it's probably difficult
Manalika Das
@Manalika · 2:38
But after some contemplation, I realized that the other guy who Das really into me, who pampered me. I don't think I was in love with him as much as he was with me. So it was for his own good. I started praying that I hope that he should find a girl who actually loves him, who takes care of him other than me. So he completely like my ex completely broke me. He destroyed my personality. I don't know, I was completely numb
Aanchal saluja
@aanchalsaluja · 0:25
Hello. I hope you are doing good. And thank you so much for replying. And yes, the reason, you know, like knowing the reason why the person is back is actually better than avoiding that person. Or maybe, you know, just start pushing that person away. It's better to at least listen. Why did he leave and why is he here now? So thank you so much for applying. It helped a lot
Aanchal saluja
@aanchalsaluja · 0:22
Hello Pregnal. Thank you so much for replying. And yes, roll caller is a must, must think in today's generation. And you know, it's actually a smart move to actually know and avoid such things. And obviously the person left at first place. So thank you for replying
Aanchal saluja
@aanchalsaluja · 0:26
Hi Disha, I hope you are doing good and thank you so much for replying. And yes trust cannot be regained again and again. And you know once that person loses the trust it's really hard for the person to trust just the other one and it's not that they hate or something. Even if they try to trust that person again they just cannot. So thank you so much for replying. It means a lot
Aanchal saluja
@aanchalsaluja · 0:59
Hi. I hope you're doing good. And first of all, let me tell you that my story is exactly the same as of yours. You know, like, I have given him so much chances. Like, like, every single time, I'd be like, okay, it's okay. Come back. And I have lost a lot of boys, a lot of men who genuinely cared for me and genuinely who treated me well and better than the person then he did
Priyanshi Gulati
@Priyanshi29 · 0:44
Like literally your heartbeat gets so fast and you just get like all these memories, all those things get back in your mind and it comes in front of your eyes that you know, is that happening again? Is that happening again? So like that is so d*** hitting
vaibhav behl
@vaibhavbehl · 4:59
All I did was we went out to eat momos and I just clicked the four of momos and uploaded my story and tagged her. That was all I did. She texted me after a long time, probably after a year or so, or maybe even two or three years ago. She texted me and the person who I forgot even existed. Suddenly I just wanted her back. I saw her text
Sahil Mehta
@sahil0743 · 0:17
Hi angel. The topic you choose was really good and trendy. These Das. If I get into a situation like this, I would never, ever let that person come back to my life. I like, swell. It was good
Tanya Mahajan
@Tanya30 · 1:00
Hi Archel, if I talk about me, what I would do if I get the call or in the situation, I would really tell that person that everything that I wanted to say at that time, but I could not say it because they were not present, they were just gone. So if they would call me and I would really talk about all of my feelings and just tell them I have move on
Aanchal saluja
@aanchalsaluja · 0:31
Hi Priyanshi, thank you for replying. And yes, that's exactly my point. You know, you can move on. You can forget about that person or maybe you can accept the fact that he is not there anymore and will still be happy with that fan. But when that person comes back, you have that soft side, that vulnerable side where you feel like yes I want that person. Like your heart says that you want that person, but your brain stops used
Aanchal saluja
@aanchalsaluja · 0:36
Hello, webhorn. Thank you so much for applying. And, you know, I heard your whole story. Indeed. It gave me goosebumps, and I was like, so we picked a satellite, and, you know, it's. It's am very proud of you. It's really brave of you. You just let things go. Whatever. You're just going with the flow, and it takes a lot to do that. So I'm really proud of you on that
Aanchal saluja
@aanchalsaluja · 0:07
Hi, Sahil. Thank you so much and I'm glad that you like my content. Thank you for sharing
Aanchal saluja
@aanchalsaluja · 0:35
Hello Tanya. I hope you're doing good. Thank you so much for applying. And you know, it's indeed the best way to end up things, you know, which only you just have to deal with it instead of ignoring, avoiding. Go talk to that person, express how you were, express how you felt, express how badly you were hurt. And in the end, if your decision is yes, just say it on the face
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Soumye Arora
@Soumye · 1:09
And to further add to that, I think that the way with which you are speaking, the quote you used. So I think that somewhere deep down you yourself know what you want to do. But just like any other human, not blaming or anything, just like any other human, we sometimes need guts to accept our own choices. So I honestly hope that I could have been of help. And this is a really cool swell. It means made me question some stuff too
Aanchal saluja
@aanchalsaluja · 0:39
Hey. Hi. Thank you so much for listening and replying and you said it so right that we should value people who value us at first because everyone can regret later. But if someone values you in the first time, treats you well in the first place, that is something which makes that bond or a relationship special. And also that acceptance is the key. As you said that you should accept whatever is happening, whatever happened in your past, just accept it and acceptance is the key