@MsColes77
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 4:27

Just For Fun! Do you post pics of your dates on social media?

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How many girls on my page are going to be blowing up my inbox with all sorts of info about you? I'm not going to do that to anybody, nor am I going to do that to myself. So swell cast family. If someone wanted to take a selfie with you on a date, would you do it? This is the first date. You guys are still getting to know each other. This is your first time hanging out

#dating #fun #love #romance #single

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@Andrea_Speaks
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 4:04
And again, for me, I would want to know, why do you want to post me? And you don't even know if you really want to be with me. Why would you want to post me, right? Because we ain't did enough. If this is our first date, we ain't did or said enough to even do it. But yeah. So that's just weird to me. And I would ask the person, like, are you insecure?
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@MsColes77
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 2:07

@AndreaSpeaks

I remember times where around Valentine's Day, you would see all these people posting folks that nobody's ever seen them with before. And you could tell that these were just manufactured relationships so they could get on social media because they want to be like everybody else and have a boo to post on social media. But I'm like you. We don't know where this is going. It may not go nowhere
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@Swell
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15

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@BunBunsBookPick
Erica and Bun Bun
@BunBunsBookPick · 3:10
We're in a society where there's a lack of trust in general, and that causes anxiety and that causes us to do things that we wouldn't normally do. So to have someone use that, as you call it, the litmus test, just to see if the person is honest, to me, it's just doing too much, but it speaks volumes about the society that we're in. I remember reading a romance novel a long time ago, here I go, going to books
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@chitchatwithkk
Kitha Larie
@chitchatwithkk · 2:47
She's going to be by herself forever because I would not I would dare a man to come talk about ourselves and he better put his phone up. No. If we've been knowing each other for a while and then we go on our little date, it's the first date, but we've been friends and we decide to take it to the next level, that's different
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@DearAuntyAng
Ann-Gela Kaye
@DearAuntyAng · 2:15
It was actually a husband and wife. So I had the benefit of the male and female perspective in dating. And we could run things by them and they would have been like, girl, don't you ever don't even do that, and don't even think about doing that. So she definitely can use some wife counsel and some healing. She's also not aware of the fact that someone could go on a first date with you and not be completely single
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@MsColes77
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 2:42

@SoulJourney1K

After this date, you might not like him. Who knows? You may not even make it through the first date. You might decide after the bread has been served that this dude ain't it. And you already calling your you already getting your Uber together and already decided, okay, when he goes to the bathroom, but duck out of here or something. No, seriously, you may not even make it past that first date
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@MsColes77
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 3:06

@chitchatwithkk

But it's just that when you're on a date, no, I mean this person could end up just being someone that I don't ever want to be associated with. And if you put us in a photo together and put it on the internet, then it's just out there on somebody's server somewhere. And no matter how many times you try to go out and delete it, it's going to end up in somebody's server somewhere
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@MsColes77
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 1:54

@DearAuntyAng

It's just good to have that ear that's unbiased that unbiased ear to tell you what's going on and to give you advice and lead you in the right direction. Because truth be told, like you said, some people just need to heal, and they don't realize it. They don't recognize that they're in a hurt and broken place and that this is where some of these great ideas of theirs are being birthed they're being birthed out of brokenness
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